The First Time He Hit Her, Heidi Lemon
Testament to the recent societal understanding that to observe the presence of coercive control in an intimate relationship is to witness ‘a murder in slow motion’, THE FIRST TIME HE HIT HER is an exhaustive examination of the events that preceded the death of a young Australian mother in 2015. (I am hesitant to say ‘led up to the death’ as this removes the responsibility of humane choice away from Tara Costigan’s killer).
What is common once again from the stories of Tara’s family and friends is that none expected things to go so far, even though on the day of the ... Read review




















